In a world where women strive to become equal, I feel like we lose the fact of how different we actually are. It’s not about being the same, but about being respected for our own unique qualities. Our differences are our strengths. Being able to understand yourself and your own abilities and how we work together can create great relationships in all aspects of your life.
One way to look at our nature is by comparing men to the sun and women to the moon. Like the sun, men rise everyday with the same intensity and sleeps at night. Other than the seasons they are pretty stable. Where women live by the moon, constantly changing day by day depending on how much light the moon is giving. Women tend to be more emotional like the tides, where men are more logical. Now maybe this scenario is a bit different for your situation. Think of it as masculine and feminine energy. There’s normally one person that is more logical and the other is more emotional. There is a reason for this. We are meant to balance eachother.
When you think about our human nature and how we are built. Women create chaos in their womb. Life is physically formed inside of a woman’s body. So, she is not only holding her energetic spirit inside of her but also forming a new human for a spirit to enter. She is responsible for life itself. With that nature, she is constantly searching for threats to her and her unborn child. It’s in her energetic programming from our ancestor’s history to try and survive. So, what do we do? We overthink, we worry, we visualize all the worst-case scenarios. Because there was a time in our bloodlines where husbands went looking for food, never to return. A time where the common cold could take out the strongest of babies. Fear is our first nature. But, in our fear and all that over thinking is a lot of love and imagination. Women create the home. We create schedules, holidays, and homecooked meals. We create moments of laughter and togetherness. We are life. We are emotion. We are the heart of the home. The feminine energy is intuitive, receptive, and ever-changing, reflecting the rhythm of nature itself. It feels, nurtures, and connects, sensing truths that logic cannot grasp.
Where women take on energy and transform it to emotion, men are like the penis. Straight forward, and ready to do business. The masculine and their logic are simpler and straight to the point. What needs done? How do I fix it? They tend to be the go getter, and the shover down of emotions. They are brute force and strength. Not to say men are not emotional, but men have been traditionally taught that emotions are a sign of weakness. However, men have the ability to bring comfort and peace. Just being in the presence of their strength, can calm chaos. They are a great balancer. The masculine energy moves with direction, purpose, and clarity. It analyzes, protects, builds, and seeks to understand through reasoning.
Of course, each one of us holds both energies. We have our inner masculine and feminine energy. We each can be a little too emotional or too logical and miss out on the heart of a situation. Understanding our own nature helps us to show up as a partner in our relationships. If we ourselves are not self-aware, how can we help balance our partner when they need it, and vice versa. You wouldn’t want just anybody to be your zombie apocalypse partner. You would pick someone with a skill set. Someone who brings wisdom. Your partner is a reflection of you and your choices. Learning together and balancing each other is necessary for the survival of a marriage. If you commit to a life with another human, plan on a lot of ups and downs. Emotions are constantly coming like waves, and your partner is a part of your life raft.
When energies collide, they either cause chaos or peace. And in relationships you will have both. There will be times when one of you needs to feel their emotions and the other needs to hold the balance. But choosing to show up and to always put forth the energy needed for your relationship to thrive is key. Life is all about focus and energy. If your relationship matters, you will find the balance, but it takes two. One partner cannot carry both energies without getting burnt out. A relationship only fails when a partner stops engaging. Choose how you engage. If you want love, show up with love. If you want understanding, show up with understanding. Be the energy you want reflected back at you.
This world is full of distractions. There are things constantly seeking your attention. It takes determination and discipline to create the life you want. But, as always, I have hope for humanity. I have hope for marriages and families. I have hope that people are reconnecting to their nature and creating their dreams. The future is what we make of it. Your nature is just a part of that journey. Good luck you.
With love,
the Awakened Bruja
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